And so here are the details.
I had finished training a bit earlier because it was election day in Zambia and I needed to let the staff go and vote.
The night before I was dreaming about getting the call and I realised that I had only set a personalised ringtone (The Creed One) to one of my SW’s. So I sorted that out and was playing with my phone and asigned myself a new ‘general’ ringtone too. The funny thing was that I always expected the call to come from Leigh or Joan and I hadn’t even realised that I had saved Wilnas number.This is also this the first trip that I have put my phone on roaming. I normally only put it on sms roaming – which means I can’t recieve calls, only sms’s.
I relaxed in my room a bit and read my Russel Brand book, and then decided I need a small nap. I went to the loo and while I was sitting there I heard this wierd classical music. My first thought was – What channel is the TV on?????? I walked over to the bed and realised that my cellphone was ringing…..A classical ring tone. And then I looked and saw that it said ‘Wilna calling” and I thought “Oh ok”……..”what” “Oh my word” “Oh my word!!!!!”
I answered, and she couldnt bloody hear me! I called her back ……and she still couldn’t hear me. Eventually I called her from my hotel phone, in between smsing my husband to say, “WILNA IS PHONING ME!!!” To which he replied ” What???”
And so this was the conversation,
W: I know we haven’t met and that Leigh did your screening. Your profile has been presented before, but I am glad to tell you that this time you have been chosen.
And that is where I just burst into tears. I think I even asked her if she was serious!!!
We had a long conversation about the background of the BM and BF (which we have decided not to share with anyone) and then she told me…..”The baby is due to be delivered by C-section on Saturday” ……..”Can you be in Cape Town because the BM wants you there?”Β I was like “YES!!!!!”
We can be whereever you want us to be by tomorrow. π π
And in between all of this I was smsing my husband. I said, “Love we have been chosen” to which he replied, “What” “Really” “Must I call you” – in three separate sms’s.
Once I had finished my call with W, the first person I called was my husband. And by this time I was crying big tears. I told him the news and the background ……and then when the baby was due. I can’t remember what he said. I do remember telling him to call his dad and that I would call my mom.
I remember the rest in bullet form and it seemed to happen that way.
- Called Mom, didn’t answer her phone
- Called Chris ( my sted dad) didn’t answer his phone.
- Called my brother. Said, “You are going to be an uncle on Saturday”
- Try to call mom again, didn’t answer her phone.
- Called Chris again.
- Called mom again, she answered the phone! I say “Mom, you can chill that champagne, we got the call”
- Called my Dad, He calls me back in my room and I fill him in on the details.
- I sms my family.
- I sms my friends.
- I sms my husband again.
- I write a blog post.
- I write on Fertilicare.
- I try to have a bath and relax, but my phone is going mad…….
- I speak to a few friends on the phone.
- I try tp calm down
- It nine o clock.
- I get into bed.
- Try to read.
- Try to sleep.
- I pray and thank God for this precious gift.
- I think of our birth mom. I think about what she is doing now.
- I try to sleep …….Not much sleep happens
Right now I am exhausted, but I am not sure if I am going to be able to sleep again.
I am just so looking forward to getting on that plane tomorrow.
I have baby clothes to wash, shopping to do. I need to get down to Cape Town!!!
Still can’t believe this is hapening.
We don’t know the sex of the baby yet! I will certainly keep you unpdated friends.
thank-you so much for all your support and all of your comments. I so so appreciate them!!!
September 21, 2011 at 8:37 pm
I am so incredibly happy for you! Such awesome, happy news! Wow – 2011 has been a fruitful year π
Can’t wait to hear all about little ones arrival and see pics x x. Enjoy and savour and remember every second x x
September 22, 2011 at 3:31 am
OMG OMG OMG! So THAT is what it is like?!
Tick tock…the days are ticking by. PLEASE update when you can. Can’t wait for more details.
Godspeed!
September 22, 2011 at 3:38 am
O my word chills!!!!!! Sooooooooooo happy for you and can’t wait to see photos of lil baby on saturday!!!!
September 22, 2011 at 3:46 am
π I can’t even think of anything to write!! I’m just so darn happy for you π
September 22, 2011 at 5:54 am
Sian I am so very very happy for you. This is such amazing news and I am sure your head is in a spin with all that needs to be done. Just remember all that baby really needs is you and your hubby and all that love you have been waiting to give them for so many years…..I shall wait with bated breath for your updates. I am so ecstatic that your happy ending is right around the corner. Wishing you so much love and a safe trip to Cape Town.
September 22, 2011 at 5:59 am
sob, sob, sob…. went into your FB profile this morning, saw your shining, smiling face and sobbed some more! I am beyond-bloody-words-excited for you!!
Sian listen – I am on call for you on Sunday if there is A.N.Y.T.H.I.N.G. that you need to get and don’t know where to go, okay? I know that Wilna will also be at your side, but if you are in a bind – you PLEASE shout, okay???
π π π π π π π π π π π π π π
September 22, 2011 at 5:59 am
I MEANT SATURDAY!!!
September 22, 2011 at 6:50 am
I can’t wait to see you tonight, and to give you and DJ a HUGE hug! I might cry ok?
It brings back so many memories of our special time and I feel so privileged to be a part of your miracle!
Sian, if I may…. in terms of traveling to Cape Town, its easiest to take with you on the flight down, only what you will need for the hospital. The rest of the stuff you can buy when you’re in Cape Town, just so you’re not too overloaded going down.
On the way back, just ensure you have your paperwork with you, so you can prove to the airlines that you are traveling with a baby that is legally in your guardianship, you’ll get paperwork from the courts when you go on Monday/Tuesday.
You also need to stipulate that you are traveling with a baby for the flight back and will be required to give the babies name, so don’t book your return flight yet, wait till you’ve had all your court stuff sorted out first.
When you fly back, it doesn’t matter if you’re overweight, if you tell the person doing the check in that you have just adopted this baby, they will let you through and not charge you for being over weight.
When Walter and I flew down, we had one weekend bag. When we flew back, we had 4 suite cases and a travel system and the airlines were fantastic! They treated us like royalty when we shared our story with them.
Words cannot describe how excited I am for you!
September 22, 2011 at 7:19 am
I am just so delighted for you and as with Sharon, brings back so many amazing memories. Knowing the immense joy that awaits you, I cannot wait to hear all about it. I know it is probably still so surreal, but after all your heartache you are a mommy and you have been for the last 9 months without knowing it. xxxx
September 22, 2011 at 7:45 am
MAN I’M EXCITED FOR YOU!!!!! So very very happy and over the moon….. I have this feeling you’ll be having a little boy, I dunno why it’s just a feeling….let’s see if it is – of course boy or girl does not matter because it is your beautiful baby. So happy that you get to be there for the birth! Awesome times ahead. Good luck and plenty love coming your way!
Yay for miracles!
September 22, 2011 at 8:10 am
You got me in tears Sian. This is just.plain.awewome!!!
Congrats Sister, end of that big long IF journey !!!! WAAAAAAAAAW. A cute newborn. WAAAAAW
Lots of Love, Sophie
September 22, 2011 at 8:17 am
I really don’t cry easily but this post made me cry. This is just the most exciting thing and I pray that everything goes really well. So surreal that in 48 hours time you’ll be a mommy. How awesome is that?
September 22, 2011 at 8:59 am
It’s amazing, so amazing. I can’t wait to see pictures of you cuddling a bundle of joy. Wooooooooooohoooooooooooooo!
September 22, 2011 at 9:01 am
And I’m with LM – anything you need, I’m on call! Just shout. All us Cape Town FC girls will come racing to help π
September 22, 2011 at 9:06 am
Awwwwwwwww now i am crying to, so wonderfull, huge huge huge congratulations once again !!
September 22, 2011 at 9:07 am
Wow!!!! Sian! SO so so so happy for you!!!! Best news in a looong time hon! Congratulations!
September 22, 2011 at 9:20 am
Good luck for this weekend hun, sure it’s going to be an emotional one for you guys.
Can’t wait to hear how your little miracle arrived into this world!
September 22, 2011 at 11:22 am
Sian, this is FANTASTIC news! Congratulations and Good Luck for your busy weekend ahead! So Thrilled and excited for you both!
September 22, 2011 at 12:19 pm
Hey you – You probably wont remember me – but I definately remember you from my fertilicare days (Charmi on there). Just wanted to say HUGE congrats!! (I stumbled on your blog via Sharon). I think the next couple will probably go by in a ‘daze’ – I bet you are living, breathing and eating Saturday now!. So so happy for you!!
September 22, 2011 at 6:33 pm
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!! So excited for you!!!!!!!!!
Hope it all goes well, and look forward to hearing more from you!
September 23, 2011 at 7:01 am
Congrats! Such wonderful news! And your psychic was right – 2 weeks!
September 23, 2011 at 7:27 am
TOMORROW Sian !! Wish I could give you a biggg hug !! Just wanted to wish you and the BM all the best for your baby’s birth !!
September 23, 2011 at 8:44 am
Sian I will be thinking of you and your DH and your BM tomorrow. Wishing you a beautiful birth experience and may tomorrow be the beginning of a wonderful journey into motherhood.
Much love
September 23, 2011 at 11:59 am
One more sleep! Can you believe it? Wishing you and your hubby and the BM all the best for tomorrow. Update us when you can. I think it is a little boy, see your blog colour is now yellow … oh the excitement of it all!
September 23, 2011 at 12:00 pm
π
September 23, 2011 at 4:37 pm
Oh now i’m crying all over again. Please, if you need anything at all while you are in Cape Town, give me a call. I would love to help, so please ask if you need any help. Will be thinking of you tomorrow all day and eagerly checking for updates. Enjoy meeting your precious baby. Biggest hugs.
September 23, 2011 at 7:38 pm
My friend, your time to be a mommy has come… AT LAST! We are so excited and happy for you and we know you and DJ are going to be such amazing parents! If I did not have ears my smile would go around my head! Only a few more hours and your dream will come true! We are praying for you guys and also for the BM. Lots and lots of love, us xxxx
September 24, 2011 at 6:18 am
Congratulations, I can only imagine how you are feeling, the emotions, the joy……
Hope this is all you have hoped for and more.
Please share more details once you are all settled in with your little one.
Heritage day will always have a different meaning to you always π
September 24, 2011 at 8:04 am
Every time I read about you I am in tears. What a miracle. Congratulations. Will be thinking of you today as you welcome your new little one into your family. It truly is an overwhelming experience and I am sending you so much love and strength to get through the next few days.
September 24, 2011 at 8:05 am
Dont know why my name comes up like that – Its Robyn. xxx
September 24, 2011 at 8:07 am
Everytime I read about you I am in tears. What a miracle. Congratulations. Will be thinking of you today as you welcome your new little one into your family. It truly is an overwhelming experience. Sending you so much love and strength for the new next few days. xxx
September 24, 2011 at 12:37 pm
Congratulations, I hope this is only the start of many wonderful things in your life and hope this will be all you have wished for and more.
September 24, 2011 at 8:40 pm
Wow. I am so glad your waiting is finally over. Your miracle arrived. Congratulations!!!
September 27, 2011 at 5:28 am
I can’t imagine what a whirlwind you’re in right now. I’m thinking of you, hubby, bub and bm. Such an momentous time in all of your lives and it is so very awesome that you are finally going to be a Mummy. *hug* π
September 28, 2011 at 5:15 pm
Oh my word hun…all I can say is my heart is tingling for you and what is about to happen to your life…it is simply the most special thing you will ever experience…becoming a mom xxx congrats, awesome fab fab news…so so so so happy for you xxx
September 29, 2011 at 9:26 am
Well by now you’ve already met Jayden and are settling in with him @ home, but i just had to say this post gave me chills reading it after the fact. Whirlwind.
God is FAITHFUL and GREAT and ALMIGHTY!
xxx
October 2, 2011 at 10:40 am
Congrats Sian, it looks like you got a baby-boy !! How beautiful from the pictures on your blog !!
We got GREAT news too ! We got a referral for a baby GIRL ! We are blessed, Sister !!